These days it seems very difficult to find the ideal match - or for a lot of people any partner at all. Being overweight might be another huge obstacle to overcome if you want to get a woman interested in you. The sad truth is that today's society is superficial and obsessed with looks and figures. It is not, however, impossible to get the girl you like. In this light - this article will attempt to give helpful pointers how to get a girl if you are fat.
To begin, if you are overweight and you are looking to get a girl to like you then try to get her to focus on the other, for lack of a better term, more attractive aspects of your person. In this light get girls to focus on what you do well - how you reason if it is that, how caring and loving you are, your gentle nature; in essence your personality. Some girls actually are more attracted to a man's personality then their looks.
Secondly, even though personality is very important - if you still feel insecure about your weight and believe it is stopping girls from liking you then wear clothes that go with your figure. Wear clothes of the same color both top and bottom and make sure your clothes are a little bit lose.
Also - wearing a top or pants with vertical stripes has a slimming effect. These tips can help you appear thinner and help girls to like you if you are overweight or fat.
Thirdly, some women are even attracted to fat men. Everybody is different - women to. Find such women - ask around, check the internet dating sites and their preferences - these girls will definitely have more of a chance of liking you. Fat men are also desirable to some woman - this is a truth don't worry.
Furthermore, make sure you are clean, tidy and well kept. Woman might see the fact that you are taking pride in your appearance as an indicator that you are not overweight because you are a lazy sloth but rather that it is just your natural physical makeup.
Have a good neat hair cut and if you can make them laugh! Humor can outweigh your pounds! In addition to this be willing to go the extra mile for the girls. Be helpful, patient and long suffering. Show them that you are different and let them see that you are still an attractive prospect even if you don't feel this way because of your weight.
Being overweight might make you shy. Getting a girl to like you if you are shy might be an added obstacle to overcome besides your weight. In this light - be as confident as possible. Confidence is extremely attractive to the opposite sex. Be self assured or have faith that you are also a perfect creation and let them see this confidence - don't overdo this though.
Lastly, if none of these above points work - well then work out. Go running; go to gym - if you can lose as much weight as possible. Watch your diet, watch your lifestyle. Live healthily drink less alcohol.
Play squash - do pushups or even at the last resort see the doctor and get dieting pills (only if needs be!). Also seeing a dietitian can be a very effective means of working out a perfect diet for your metabolic rate and physical make up - they know what they are doing. Never though give up hope - if there is a will then, yes, there is definitely a way to get girls to like you - even if you are fat.
In conclusion
Focus on mind and characteristics
Wear clothes that go with your body shape
Dress well
Focus on the good parts of appearance
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